Saturday, January 5, 2008

Find Your Center: Find Your Peace

All men's miseries derive from not being able to sit in a quiet room alone.” Pascal

Of all the practices that one can pursue to provide health, clarity, stress reduction, psychological resolution, and emotional and spiritual growth, the most consistently powerful method is that of “centering”—bringing yourself to your true energetic core—to what you are before and beyond your familial, societal, and egoic restructuring and reshaping.

This centering is similar to maximizing your strength and balance by bringing your stance to a physical axis in Tai Chi or other physical arts. We all know what happens when something or someone pulls us off center…we “fall” or we act in a way that is “just not like” us—at very least not like what we would wish to be. What would we become if we could spend more and more time balanced, centered daily?

Not all the paths to centering are as structured as Tai chi, Yoga, or some forms of meditation. The methods for coming to this emotional/psychological/spiritual center are as varied and infinite as the individuals that may pursue balance. The most productive path for you could be dancing, walking in nature, cooking, watching the children, fishing, or contact with anything that deeply inspires—even digging a ditch works for me on occasion. The important thing is to realize what activity makes you feel most connected to yourself, your life and everyone and everything around you. In that state, you are nearest your center…in a mystical communion with the Absolute, God, Tao, your source by whatever name.

I find that such activities that "bring one to their center" will cause a vibrational change in us (i.e. the way we feel inside just after a peaceful experience versus what our body feels like after a stressful day). After a centering experience, we operate at this more beneficial vibrational level (lower blood pressure, clearer thinking, more open-hearted responses, greater sense of well-being, generally better health). We drop from this level (like a battery losing charge) toward our "set point" as the time since the centering passes. Therefore, a periodic recharge is necessary to keep us spending more time near that centered state.

Our "set point” is the state of mind that we generally function at without any experience of centering or "off-centering". On any given day, we may fluctuate over and under the set point, depending on what we are responding to. Over time, repeatedly returning to the "center" raises the set point, raises our base day-to-day operating consciousness—which in turn provides a baseline for reaching consistently stronger connection with one’s center, which raises the set point.....

Just one thing: I for one seem to generally (not always) require some time "practicing"/living outside of the "centering" experience to make the increased set point take hold.

May you find your centering practice, and be at peace.

Copyright 2007 CG Walters

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C.G. Walters primarily writes fiction that focuses on the multidimensionality of our loves and our lives. His current novel, Sacred Vow is a metaphysical novel about a man who responds to the mysterious call of [his soulmate], opening the way to redefinition of both himself and his understanding of the world around him…Highly recommended. —Midwest Book Review.

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9 comments:

r a w said...

Hi CG,
Such an important point, and yet the most ignored. Very well written too. Thanks for reminding me about getting centered. I will surely practise it.

best regards,
rahul

CG Walters said...

Thank you, Rahul. May you find many blessings in your center,
CG

Brandon Harshe said...

Thanks for this post. I've been having some difficulties lately that will probably go away with some focused meditation.

CG Walters said...

I am sorry to hear about your trying time, Brandon. I hold you in the light.
...focused meditation, or completely unfocused joy...play is as good for the soul as anything.
Many blessings and comforts this week ahead...
CG

Patricia Singleton said...

CG, thanks for sharing this article. I am in a very small Tai Chi class. Counting the instructor, there are 4 of us. I am his worst student. I don't practice as I should. I am not always very coordinated in doing the movements. Why do I go to the class? Because of what I have learned about myself and the friendship of the other 3 people. I have learned to be aware of my body and that has given me a self-confidence that I didn't have before. Being centered is a wonderful experience.
My teacher is a wonderful man who is a diamond in the rough. Most people don't like him. I have always chosen to look beneath the surface of the image that people project. Sometimes you find a person with a heart just waiting to be loved but afraid of being hurt. It has been a joy watching this big man who plays tough guy to the world open up and present his softer side to his class of three women. It is sad that he doesn't feel safe enough to show this side to everyone and I can understand that because of my own childhood abuse. Have a glorious day.

CG Walters said...

Thank you for sharing, Patricia.
I think that in staying with something like Tai Chi, we may be making considerable strides even if it is not evident in (this case) our Tai Chi form.
Also, the situation with the teacher sounds like a very good example of the inter-dependence/benefit shared between student and teacher. Blessings to you all for the assistance you give one another.
peace and wonder,
CG

EvoSolutions said...

Hi CG, This is Evo from Gaia. This article looks like one that I could easily incorporate as it is very self contained and a complete unit. If that works for you then please send a copy of it to: articlesubmission@enlightendirectory.com
Please feel free to add a link to whichever website you'd like at the bottom and some contact info or a link to your book on amazon. Thanks again for the wave.

Peace & Blessings,
Evo Lori

Liara Covert said...

As readers here choose to explore new sides of themselves, they discover a variety of ways to feel as though its meaningful practice.Each person can evolve to decide to see themselves as they are, but like anything, it is a choice. Humans have free will. That is part of what makes them. It is part of what conects them.

CG Walters said...

Very true, Liara. Thank you for being here.
Many blessings to you and your dear ones,
CG